Recently, Handan Wu'an 17-year-old Xiaofang Xingtai users see a message immediately reported, police attached great importance to military security, soon find out the girl's address, the ultimate success of the girls rescued.
yesterday morning, Xiaofang, open their hearts at home, told reporters on his reason for committing suicide, and the inner anguish and desire.
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17-year-old girl A small group of children to a call from Xingtai calls, saying he had just military security on the Internet with a girl chat, the other said he was very poor family, living a very boring, and has eaten half a bottle of sleeping pills. Since both sides know the time is not long, Xingtai small group of children reported that the girl is only 17 years old this year, called Xiaofang, but the home address is unknown.
Although the report are very vague clues, but also temporarily unable to distinguish between true and false, but still caused Wu'an the police's attention. They immediately check through the information platform for the local population, and soon identified Wu'an really a girl named Xiao Fang, Yan Bo, Department of Wu'an a town, house number is also clear.
11:30, Bo Yan village, town police station, police rushed to the package home rescue Xiao Fang found that white picket fence Xiaofang was sitting listlessly on his hands Tuozhuo Sai, dull eyes, mind and also somewhat blurred.
Ten minutes later, the police will Xiaofang to Wu'an hospital. According to medical personnel, patients had eaten about an hour sleeping pill, and a larger dose, but fortunately found in time, no serious consequences.
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mother left home, his father working away from home
17-year-old was supposed to be carefree age, can go to commit suicide why Xiaofang The road to ruin it?
According to some villagers, as early as seven or eight Xiaofang, when his mother left home to, and then never show up. Her father to feed their families, working outside year round. Xiaofang and this year, leaving only 70-year-old grandma,
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Xiaofang's grandmother told reporters in June 2009, Xiaofang junior high school did not continue after graduation, helping her stay at home to do housework. Xiaofang's father loved her very much, always worried about the girls outside unsafe, so refused to let Xiaofang alone from a faraway place, even to go to the elderly must also be accompanied by Wu'an area.
old also revealed that the temper impatient granddaughter, and rarely bothering with her face communication. Began in April and May of last year, Xiaofang hooked on the Internet, a free online chat to pick up the phone.
for Xiaofang, sleeping pills, the old people that the younger the child, at home,
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inner desire to to the girl.
that reporters are somewhat surprised that the front looks dignified and elegant Xiaofang, cheerful, graceful, not as introverted as the villagers said. According to Xiao-fang said that her father and grandmother in particular loved her, even though very poor, but she is always available. Last year, my father heard that she wanted a cell phone, and soon sent from the work place 500 dollars.
Although Xiaofang know loved her father and grandmother in particular, can she still feel lonely and depressed. Particularly students and see some of the same age girls in the village outside of work or school, Xiaofang to particularly want to see the outside world. However, father and grandmother always refused her request for various reasons, they believe that girls should stay at home, honestly, will come to the husband's family can only wait and then go out.
father has a lot of trouble for the family, for fear Xiaofang wronged, he even has not remarried. So, Xiaofang could not bear to go against the will of his father, had to suppress their inner desire. However, a long time, she was gradually lost faith in life.
It said Xiao Fang, day of the incident, her mood is very low. Impulse, she can not figure out what is the purpose, they put the rest of the half bottle of sleeping pills grandmother, all poured into the stomach. Then she did not mean that life itself has been the news of sleeping pills, made by phone to the QQ,.
Today, Xiaofang experienced the death in the face, has been recognized is the world's most precious life. Some users are online to persuade her: the family's poverty is temporary, and the young are the most valuable asset in life, as long as my heart filled with hope, opportunity must be in there.
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parents should give children freedom and space
single girl for psychological confusion encountered Xiaofang, a psychology teacher that the Handan City, with its particular family environment are closely linked.
First, Xiaofang's father after his wife ran away from home, more or less had a number of social psychological conflict or alert. In his subconscious, that if her daughter out of the house, will be subject to abuse, so prefer to own more difficult, do not want to let his daughter go out battles.
Second, Xiaofang,
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psychology teacher who has a similar family situation to remind parents to protect her daughter under the premise of safety, should be eager to go out as much as possible to meet the aspirations of children, such as fellow classmates went together to the city or work or participate in technology training. In this way, their future independent living and mental health are of great help. In addition, they have to pay more to encourage her friends, including online friends with people through the exchange of children, to learn more about society, to better integrate into society. (Yanzhao Evening News reporter Wang Bin)
(Editor: SN026)
